It hurts to be parted from the people that you hold most dearly in your heart as much as it hurt to be left alone and feeling alone when they are finally gone. Death is inevitable in every person’s life. Something that was beyond our control, and yet wished we could. Some ask for it desperately to end their sufferings while on the other hand some tried all that they can researching medicine and calling out for God’s help just to have few more years in this world. On the same ground, Death no matter how it happened would always accompanied by change. Big change for everyone who’s been left behind. And tears would become the only way of expressing the unexplainable feeling of sadness that consumes. And that’s when the flashback of memories enter and that made it all the most difficult to accept change. Sadness is really more unforgettable than Happiness for it creates such deep hole in the very center of our being leaving a wound that somehow in time would heal but yet, it still leaves a scar for everyone of us to remember. We understood the realities of life and the natural way it starts and end from itself. We grieve not because the person was gone, instead we grieve because we loved that person and we would miss every single day with that person that once we shared a significant part of our life with. We then failed to see the path that is still on-going and waiting just in front of us. Because were blinded by such loneliness, because we loved and continue to love them still even if they are already gone and even if they already left us on our own, To love is the most wonderful thing we could give to any person that we forget ourselves at that moment. That’s why it’s difficult to step ahead and to go on. We loved them deeply we can’t just imagine our life in the very simple act of walking in the park hand in hand with them could change so much, now that they’re gone.

      Death means departing but departing never shows in just death alone, it is in many different ways that I know and I’m sure almost one of us had experienced. It could be leaving, like how a mother would leave her child sacrificing their time together for a better life. A farewell from friends after celebrating moment of youth and after that facing each other’s waiting future to adulthood or from a lover that once we had by our sides, together with us dreaming, later knowing life have something else to show than being with each other. And in choosing one of the hardest ways to say goodbye. For even if one considers every aspect you’ll always end up hurting either of both sides from your decision.

     Many people say that a person who can’t move on totally with life was a big coward. But as for me, I believe that those people were the most courageous of all, and I look up to them because they are not afraid to feel deeply for the one’s that they loved and valued, never failing to forget all the things about the person they loved even though they knew for the fact they would never came back again and they can’t go back to that moment again. Because for them they still lives clearly in their hearts and partings was not even a valid reason of limitation, even death.