09.27.10 Neo-Realism (these are the random thoughts..)

These are the random thoughts, of a quiet observer. Having a joyride with different people everyday, quite added stress knowing there are so many dangers in the outside world. There are so many to know and discover, learn and experience within the real world. And first steps come from the opening gates of College life.

As I moved on within days months and years to come, I wish to know and remember my starting point. So when I looked back, I can see how much have changed, how much have been so different, not from the way that I had looked it on different directions but by how it acquire changes for me in different points.

Life is amazing. Same as it is so unfair. You can be stepped on or you can be stepping on others. It is literally not easy. Billion people struggle everyday just to keep their job and sustain their living. We work, we get tired. Up’s and down’s always comes so unexpectedly. If last week our friendly neighbor is smiling on us, the next day we happen to know that our neighbor just died. Life is short, so make every second counts. You considered yourself a lucky one if right now you still have:

-You’re parents married

-You have a house to sleep

-Eat three times a day,

-Manage to study in a decent school.

-And still have you’re complete set of body parts J

So value life, and yourself, your family and those people around you even you don’t like them. Know how to appreciate even a single smile that a stranger gives you when you pass by. Working normally and “luckily” (still have a smile on your face with very little wrinkles forming and minimum eye bags.) under total pressure would really be an advantage. Self-control and self-discipline is not easy to master, but I’ll tell you if you learn to master that key tactic you’re life would be great. Situations come; we must always be ready and capable to face it. (With a tea in an afternoon snack.J). In the vocabulary now study means future, education is such a treasure that can’t be robbed by anyone. So study hard but learn to have fun and give yourself sometime and have a break from all the pressures. It’s important to recall on what you’ve been holding on that you last this long.

Love grows and learns deep as we grow older. I think it’s not about finding the right person, but making the right relationship. We love a person not just because he/she complete us but instead someone that would complement us that accept who we are. Whom we can say “I am happy, but now I am happier.” It’s not just that you love a person but is how you have gone extra mile for that someone. You go into a relationship not because you are lonely or you are needy but because you are ready. You cannot give something to others if you don’t have any for yourself. Let go of hurt if you really want a relationship to work out. Loving affectionate thoughts comes by loving affectionate actions, it goes out naturally. It’s important to have passion, but passion is more than just holding hands, kissing, embracing, or making out. It’s Lust. Passion is finding things in common and doing it. It’s looking at the same direction and going on that direction together. True love is not immediate; we could be easily deceived by temporary attraction and fatal infatuation. Even so, remember that the seed of truelove comes from a true friend. (Hi friendships! Tell me if I’m wrong, hahaha!)

Friendship is really an immeasurable treasure. Friendship doesn’t necessarily need words to celebrate happiness or get through with sadness. Them- our loyal most ever dearest crazy, sometimes weird friends willing to wait by our side to understand us and listen to us. They are our partners in crime and our secret hiding place. J

It’s fun to reminisce. To remember things who contributed for you in the making of who you are now. It would give you mixed emotions, always in the end it would make you smile. And you’ll realize how you manage to get through all that, that you still end up standing strong at the edge. But a person that lives in the past surely will fade away and end up invincible to the present. Time won’t stop even though with all our might we wish it to stop or at least have a slow motion to cope up with happenings were having difficulty accepting or didn’t fully understand. But it’s not. Time won’t stop just for a single person or a dreamy wish. Time goes on and same as life, it will also do, maybe not now, but yeah in time. Looking forward will soon come, and you’ll going to wake up again with new hope and laughter on your face even if how much things seems too strangle you too much right now.  

The key to forgiveness is acceptance. There’s no use in holding on to hurts and past unfinished business. You can easily forgive a person if you learn and already accept who they are, regardless of what they have done. All of us deserve a second chance. Were only a human beings and all of us is not really perfect. We always make mistakes. The only wrong in making a mistake would be, letting it as a mistake without doing an effort of making it right.

Everything is constant in this world. The world could turn you down and some people might betray you, there’s a lover that we ought to find always in someone, and I realize that person is just there before my eyes, God my eternal lover and long before I remember my first love of love. He would never ever leave even if all left you; he’s always there wherever you go, so make sure there’s a special place for him in your heart.

Does evil really exist? Maybe no, like darkness it’s just the absence of light, and evil is just an absence of God in a man’s heart.

Don’t go into anything unless you’re sure and you really know what you are doing. Focus on what you can do, not what you can’t do. Opportunities knocks only once, so make sure you grab it, it could result into two things, either failure or success, what important is if you happen to fail or succeed you learn something from it. Give your best in every moment, don’t expect. Be contented, don’t push time nor bring it back. Go with the flow and dance with it. When it gets all serious laugh at yourself even if it would make you look like crazy. Take sometime to look at the skies, if you’re lucky there might be a shooting star. J

Yesterday is history, Tomorrow is a mystery…  but NOW is a gift. that’s why it’s called “Present”